"Paper Towel" by Ricky Montgomery explores themes of frustration, unreciprocated efforts, and a desire for connection within a relationship.
In the verses, the protagonist asks someone where they get the audacity to talk negatively about them, using the metaphor of handing them a paper towel to clean up their mess. This suggests that the person's words and actions have caused distress and require resolution.
The pre-chorus reveals the protagonist's attempt to make things easier, possibly by offering forgiveness or understanding. However, their efforts are met with resistance, as the other person slaps their hand away or pulls away, indicating a lack of willingness to address the issues at hand.
The chorus expresses the protagonist's frustration with the recurring pattern of playing dumb and avoiding resolving conflicts. They long for a deeper connection and want to be with the other person, emphasizing their belief in and support for them. However, the repeated mentions of wanting to "do it" could refer to wanting to confront the issues head-on or take action to improve their relationship.
In the second verse, the protagonist questions where the other person gets off living in their head, implying that their thoughts and actions dominate the protagonist's mind. The mention of being called a superstar and wanting to be impressed suggests a desire for validation and recognition from the other person.
Overall, "Paper Towel" conveys a sense of frustration and longing for a more genuine and open connection within a relationship. The song highlights the protagonist's willingness to try and resolve issues, but also their exasperation with the other person's avoidance and lack of reciprocation.